Married life and well Life in general :o)

Love: Married life is so good! I don't know how, but I am constantly falling in love again with my husband all over again all the time! I love feeling that way. He is the cheese to my macaroni <3 He's working so hard for us, and I appreciate it so much. We are seeing so much of each other due to me being unemployed, and I am soaking it up because it won't be like that forever!

Kids/Pets: We got Evey fixed a couple weeks ago... and it was then that we realized that she wasn't eating. It brought me to tears :o( I didn't realize that she hadn't been eating. She was so skinny. So over the past couple of weeks, I have been on top of her trying to get her healthy again. And she is doing amazing! Eating everything up. And her personality has gotten so much better... probably due to getting her fixed, and us doting on her so much. My mother stills want us to give her away. I just don't know if I can do it. She has turned into a sweetheart although we are still keeping Maggie and her separated. We might have to move out sooner than I thought. I don't think I can stomach giving her away. This week I am going to try introducing Maggie to her again. If she warms to her over the next couple of weeks, I will make my decision then. Maggie is doing great! Lovey dovey and silly. I love her so much! Although she is in heat and making a mess. We will be getting her fixed this week. Money has been so tight lately. And Sammy has been of course doing awesome! This week was Evey and Sammy's birthday! Sammy turned 5! I can't believe he is 5! It makes me sad because he really isn't a puppy anymore :o( but he still seems it! Love my kids :o)

Job: Blah. I have been trying to find a job since January... no one is hiring! I have tried everywhere. Its getting extremely frustrating... hopefully something will come up soon! And not be a terrible 9 to 5. Jewelry business I have started is doing good though! I have gotten offers of people wanting to sell my designs in their stores like hair/nail salons and places like that. Although its tough staying up on that too without much money. Pete gets frustrated with his job alot. He works his butt off, but doesn't get much for it. He's only the one who hears it about other people's screw ups and things like that. Such is life in that line of work, being young and being a guy with a pervy boss who favors the young girls. Even though they, well most, suck!

Living Situation: Could be better. I am grateful that my folks are letting us stay until something works out for us. Apartments are ridiculous around here. Especially when I can't find a job. But being a married couple in your parents' home is tough. We just want to be us, and we can't do that here. Sometimes it is amazing being here like when we were kids! And sometimes it is awful to where everyone is avoiding each other, fighting or not talking. Sometimes we seriously have to walk on eggshells. Either way it is time we got our own place again for good.

Everything else!: So far summer hasn't been terrible... I mean weather wise. Everyone who knows me knows the heat/humidity and I do not mix. It drains all my energy. I actually prefer the cooler, rainy days to the sunny, hot & humid days! Haven't been to many festivities as of yet! We've got a few Rose Tree Park concerts coming up! The first one I can't wait for - The Caribbean Authentics! A Caribbean band who plays the steel drums, can't wait for that! And we'll also be going to Cape May in August which will be awesome of course. Thats one of our favorite places to go in the world! We would move there if we could! And of course the highlights being - Our Official Wedding Celebration will be taking place at The Chart House on Columbus Blvd/Delaware Ave... awesome restaurant that overlooks the water! Looking forward to that! And our big trip to the west coast!!! Which will sort of be like a honeymoon, ha ha, but not officially. But we are going a few days after the wedding celebration. CAN'T WAIT, CAN'T WAIT, CAN'T WAIT!!!

On a sad note, can't seem to shake the passing away of MJ :o( I have just been so sad about it. I guess because its like a piece of my childhood died. Me and my brother singing and watching Moonwalker. Its just crazy. And how sad his life turned out to be. I hope none of those accusations were true... but I guess we'll never know. But hopefully he is in a good place now.

Well thats it for now... as if that wasn't enough! Ha Ha.

April 26, 2009 <3

So this is a tad late,
but I wanted to start a blog as a family :o)

For the first blog, I will be bringing over my entry from right after we got married!

"So...

WE DID IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

And to the tell you the truth I am still on Cloud 9!!!

Planning a wedding is stressful... and to try and please everyone is impossible. It was really starting to take away from what the day is supposed to mean. So we decided to elope... knowing it possibly might upset certain loved ones. But we hoped that they would understand why and how much we loved each other and we didn't want this long drawn out thing, we just wanted to get married and start our lives together as Mr. & Mrs. Weddell!!!

So we did it!!!

The week before was alittle stressed, but we couldn't get over our excitement about what we were about to do!!!

On THE day, the sun was beating down hot... unseasonably warm! But as soon as I stepped outside finally in my dress and all done up... it had cooled drastically!!!

My Mom and I drove to Cove Beach after taking some pictures... when I stepped out of the car, everyone made me feel beautiful :o) especially my soon-to-be husband! This was the first time I was at this side of Cape May. It was the most beautiful beach, perfect <3 The sun was setting, and if you looked out the view was incredible... the jetties and the lighthouse in the distance and of course the cove! The sun was warm, the breeze was cool and the soundtrack was the waves crashing into the jetties and the sand...

The Reverend was so nice and funny!!! He made everyone feel at ease... Iwasn't nervous at all though... just super excited!!! In minutes, I was going to be Mrs. Weddell!!! We started the ceremony, and I couldn't take my eyes off of Pete, he looked amazing... but his eyes... full of love and so sincere <3 I fought back the tears really hard especially when he starting saying his vows... I love him so much. We were squeezing each other's hands and whispering 'I love yous.' I tried to show him how much he meant to me while I spoke my vows to him. I didn't mess up once!

I was already floating off to Cloud 9 and tried to hold on so I could hear and remember everything... and I did... and "I now pronounce you man and wife!" <3 I didn't want to let him go!!! It felt amazing that my parents were there. It felt so right. It felt perfect :o)

And so on Sunday, April 26th, 2009, in Cape May, New Jersey at Sunset on Cove Beach, we became MR. & MRS. WEDDELL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The most unforgettable and happiest day of my life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!